fall is finally here

Well friends, after weeks and weeks of crazy hot weather ... I think I can safely say that Fall is finally here.

This morning I woke up and put my flippers (flip - flops)  on ... walked outside ... and my toes were actually chilly. 

I loved it. 

I am so thankful that there is no 90 degree weather in this weeks future. 

I'm sure my grass is thankful too ... or maybe it's too late. I'm really worried that it might be dead.

Anyways, if you know Starbucks slang then you know that this is a pumpkin spice latte. The perfect Fall treat. 

E and I have lots of fun plans for the next couple of weeks. Maybe I'll even bring my camera along and document a few of them. 

I'm looking forward to a relaxing weekend at a lovely lake house with a bunch of our best friends.

Dinner on Saturday to celebrate E and my Dad's birthday.

And a much needed girl's va - cay to South Carolina.

That's what is in the lineup for October. 

It is going to be such a good month. 

Other news ...

thanks to my AMAZING husband, our cabinets are finally finished. 

I'm thinking that I am going to photograph them and share this week.

They look amazing. It brightens up the kitchen so much. I am really glad that we left some of the doors off. Best decision by far.

If you're looking to paint your cabinets then please feel free to email me and I can give you the step - by - step process that we did.

Also, I will warn you ... do not begin this project unless you're crazy committed. 

IT WILL FEEL LIKE THE PROJECT THAT NEVER ENDS.

It is worth it though. 

My second goal is to put in new counter tops and finish other odds and ends before the end of the year. 

That's the goal.

More news ...

God has been amazing me in some BIG ways lately. 

He is so so good and faithful to me - even when I am not.

I promise to share soon.

Other random news ...

I recently started reading this book - Mennonite in a Little Black Dress. 

I really like it - it's hysterical. 

If you need a little humor in your life, then I would suggest you pick it up.

Alright so there's a few random things going on in the Ridd household.

Really excited for Fall - hopefully that will encourage me to take more pictures, make more jewelry, and blog more. 

We'll see...

i spy with my little eye

something lovely ...

can you guess?

inspired

Hello Bloggers! 

Happy Saturday night. 

Yes, I am blogging on a Saturday night.

E and I have been enjoying a lazy day around the house. 

I love days like this.

I recently read a blog post over at Under the Sycamore. 

I was so inspired that I had to share. 

You can read it here.

My favorite quote from the post is ...

"I have five kids. One is adopted. I don't remember which one."

I cannot even put words on how much I love that quote.

wow.

new around here

Do you like?

I hope so!

I want one in my size

I would seriously take wear every single one of these outfits. Crew Cuts takes my already insane obsession with JCrew up a few more notches.

As I am writing this, I showed E these pictures and said "Look how adorable these are! I would wear all of these outfits." 

and his response ... "we can't afford that."

I thought all the wives out there would appreciate that! haha 

Yes, Crew Cuts ... you are PICTURE PERFECT.

one reason why I love working with kids

Melts my heart. 

ps. The day before they drew me this picture, they said to me ... 

"I want to have a baby someday. And when I do, I am going to hide it from all the social workers."

Ohh man....

i'm back...

Happy Tuesday Bloggers! 

It has been so so long. 

I have missed you all. 

Somehow ... I don't know how it happened ... but I have fallen off the blogging wagon.

I do apologize. 

I am going to try really hard to be better.

Don't worry about me though. Things have been good here. E and I have been enjoying ending out the summer with friends, family, and the pups. 

Here is a sneak peak at a little project that we've been working on:

before:

after:

 

Courtesy of the iphone. Sorry for the poor quality. We're leaving the doors on the top off. I love the clean and open feel that it has. 

It's amazing what a can of paint can do. 

We're still working on the rest of the doors. The blue milk glass knobs that we ordered are back-ordered 3-4 weeks. Boo. Oh well. I guess that gives me an excuse to be lazy about finishing them up. 

Once the knobs arrive and we finish up the doors, I will post more before and after pics. 

Until then, this will have to ease your curiosity. 

Alright, it's time to get off here and watch a little Prince Poppycock and Jackie. 

I hope to be back soon to share all the things going on with E and I!

this weekend's project

This weekend ... with the help of a few wonderful girlfriends ... I will be painting my cabinets and adding lovely blue knobs just like these. 

SO excited about the little transformation. 

There are a lot of things  that I want to do to spruce up our kitchen, but I decided to be patient and take it one step at a time. 

Maybe I will appreciate it more as I see it slowly come together. 

I'll be sure to take before and after pictures to share!

Please let me know if you're local and would like to help with this painting extravaganza! 

I'll bribe you with lemonade and other treats ...

sunny

I think that I could be the owner of this little cafe.

Or maybe I'd be a better customer.

Either way, I'd like to hang out here.

Anyone else want to join me?

I am really sucking at blogging

Happy Monday Bloggers! 

This picture has nothing to do with anything that I want to write about.

But I do love it. 

I could sit there with E every morning - for the rest of our lives. 

So simple - yet so lovely.

Anyways,

again I apologize for sucking at blogging lately. 

I might just have to come to terms with the fact that I am no longer a daily blogger. I once was, and I might be one again someday, but right now I am not. 

However, I am really excited to share with you some things that have been on my heart.

God is working in my life big time.

IT FEELS AMAZING.

REFRESHMENT

HOPE

THANKFULNESS

PEACE

CONTENTMENT

Those are only a few of the things that the Holy Spirit has stirred up in me. 

As it is with most growth, it hasn't been easy.

It has been really really hard.

I have felt more broken, hopeless, and scared than I have in a long time.

However, I am learning in a whole new way that when the things I want here on earth seem hopeless or scary -

I HAVE A PROMISE OF HEAVEN THAT GIVES ME REFRESHMENT, HOPE, PEACE, CONTENTMENT 

A promise that I can only be thankful for.

As many of you know, E and I have been trying to have a baby.

{If you're new to the blog, then surprise!}

We went off the bc pill only a few short months ago. We thought this whole having a baby thing would be a breeze. Yeah, I knew that it might not happen the first, second, or even third month that we tried. I was ok with that. I knew that many couples had to try for awhile.

I was prepared for a little wait. 

I was not prepared for the things that we've encountered since I took that last pill.

I won't give tons of details, not because I want to be private about it, but mainly bc I don't feel like writing it. 

Let's just say that the medical world now defines me as a habitual aborter. 

Thankfully, I know that is not who I am. 

I know that my hope is not in being a mom.

My hope is in the promise of heaven. Eternity with God.

Do I want to me a mom? YES!!! 

However, I know that being a mother is not promised to me. 

I do know that eternal life with my Savior is promised. Because of that I can still hope. I can do more than hope - I can rejoice. 

What I have been going through hurts like hell. 

It tears your heart out. 

It leaves you anxious and disappointed.

Through this I have found great comfort in the truth that Christ walked the earth as well. He knew suffering and grief very well. 

He knows what I am going through.

He is very near through E and I's suffering. 

Recently, my friend sent me this sermon to listen to. 

It is amazing.

It is truth.

You really should listen and check it out.

Since I listened to it, I have prayed that my heart would be like Paul's when he says ...

⁸What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ ⁹and be found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law, but that which is through faith in Christ—the righteousness that comes from God and is by faith. ¹⁰I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, ¹¹and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead.

Philippians 3:8-11

This scripture says because of Christ, even our greatest treasures are crap. It's pretty easy for me to look at my possessions and know that they're worthless. But when I look straight in the face with my desire to have a child ... well that's a different story. 

 Do I believe that even being a mom someday will be crap compared to Christ?

I don't know. 

A month ago, I might have said that I knew that was true, but my heart would have been way off. In my heart I would have desired pregnancy and being a mother right above God.

Lately, God has been straightening this out for me. 

In a good way. 

He is a very good God. 

I still desire to be a mom. I am not praying for that desire to be lifted.

I feel confident that I will be a better mom someday because of this truth.

In the sermon that I listened to the speaker talks about the parable of the treasure hidden in the field. 

Matthew 13:44

"The kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in a field. When a man found it, he hid it again, and then in his joy went and sold all he had and bought that field.

The speaker challenged me to think about what I need to sell to buy the field. 

What am I putting before God? 

What do I desire more than Him? 

What are my idols? 

For me, the answer through pretty loud and clear. 

I want to be a mother.

I want to feel a baby more inside me, and then I want to hold it in my arms

I want to watch them grow up.

But, these things are not promised. These hopes are not eternal. I cannot base my life on these hopes. 

They're good hopes and I know that I will see God more clearly through motherhood.

But - please hear me - 

they're not the ultimate hope.

We may be blessed with many things in our life.

Someday, I might even be blessed with a child. 

What doesn't change is that God is God. He is good.

He is better than any of my hopes or desires. 

He should be sought after.

He should be praised.

your grace will not refuse me

I'm not going to lie. 

Things have been rough around here.

Through life's struggles, I am being challenged. 

However, I am growing. 

Each day I feel more intimate with the God who made me. 

So for that I can only be thankful. 

I may not be getting what I want, but I am getting what I need. 

For the past week or so, I have been listening to this song on repeat. 

I cling to it's words. 

I hope that it encourages you in whatever you may be dealing with.

I HAVE A SHELTER

I have a shelter in the storm
When troubles pour upon me
Though fears are rising like a flood
My soul can rest securely
O Jesus, I will hide in You
My place of peace and solace
No trial is deeper than Your love
That comforts all my sorrows

I have a shelter in the storm
When all my sins accuse me
Though justice charges me with guilt
Your grace will not refuse me
O Jesus, I will hide in You
Who bore my condemnation
I find my refuge in Your wounds
For there I find salvation

I have a shelter in the storm
When constant winds would break me
For in my weakness, I have learned
Your strength will not forsake me
O Jesus, I will hide in You
The One who bears my burdens
With faithful hands that cannot fail
You’ll bring me home to heaven

You can listen to this song here.

Today, I hope that I (and you) will thank God for the gifts that he is giving you. 

They may not be what you think you need right now, but they're very good gifts.

Until this passes, I am going to do exactly what God told David:

Psalm 110:1
"Sit at my right hand 

until I make your enemies

a footstool for your feet."

popping in to say hello

Happy Monday Bloggers. 

I'm not sure what it's like where you are, but here is it pretty stinkin' hot.

Hope you all had a great weekend. My little sister came and stayed with E and I while my parents were in the Bahamas. We had a fabulous time. She is 12 years younger and lives an hour away. Even though it's only an hour, I still feel like I miss so much of her growing up. 

This weekend we enjoyed lots of big sister / little sister time. 

We ...

ate pizza

had manicures and pedicures

played with an adorable little puppy named Tucker

slept in

went to the pool

made jewelry

window shopped at the mall 

&

enjoyed the summer sun at the Farmer's Market

I have so much else to share with you guys. Some of it is very good & some of it is difficult, but I am growing from it all. I guess that's what really matters. 

I hope to share soon, but for now I am off to enjoy a P.F. Chang's date with my favorite person in the world ... E!

don't waste your cancer

This is my friend Libby's blog. 

Libby and I were in a bible study together for a couple of years, and her husband and I went to high school together. 

Libby is an amazing woman of Christ. She is a mother. She is a fabulous wife and friend. 

A couple of years ago, Libby and her husband moved to Virginia. Her husband Justin is on Young Life staff there. 

Libby started this blog about a week ago.

About a week ago she was diagnosed with Lymphoma. 

I am sharing this so that you can pray for them. 

I am also sharing because I truly believe that their honest faith will be an encouragement to you.

Each day I log on and read there new post, and each day tears come to my eyes ( and I am really not a big time cryier either). 

They're amazing. 

Please pray.

nobody wants one, but everybody needs one

a budget

In these past couple months, a budget is something that E and have have been talking about. 

E starts graduate school in one month (so proud of him) and we've been thinking about what it will be like to welcome another person into our family. 

With those two plans/changes, E and I decided that we needed to get serious about our budget. Since February, E and I have been operating on an envelope budget system. 

You can read more about it here.

The primary principle behind the envelope system is CASH HURTS.

It's much easier to swipe the plastic, than to shell out the dollar bills.

It's so true.

With the envelope system, E and I have committed to spending only cold hard cash. To clarify, bills and tithing are automatically taken out of our checking account ... so I'm not talking about that type of spending. I'm talking about any money we would spend at a store or restaurant. 

We chose to simplify and divide our envelopes up into these categories..

1. Daily Needs (for things like cleaning supplies, shampoo, medical co-pays, ect.)

2. Eating Out

3. Groceries

4. Gifts (this is for things like bday or wedding gifts ... not tithing)

5. Pets 

6. Joy (my favorite. this is E and I's spending money. we can individually spend it on whatever we want and the neither of us can say anything about it)

At the beginning (the 1st) and halfway through the month (the 15th) I fill the envelopes up with cash. Then, for the rest of the month we only use the money in those envelopes. 

I will say that we decided to have a "bank" envelope as well. This is only for the convience factor. We don't spend any of the money out of the bank envelope, it's only for making change. 

You might ask ... "what happens if you forget an envelope at home?" 

Well, that's where the bank envelope comes in place. If I run to the grocery and spend $10.00, but don't have my "grocery" envelope on me, then I will put it on our debit card. However, as soon as I get home I take $10.00 out of the grocery envelope and put it into the bank envelope. For me, I have to do this as soon as I get home or I will forget. 

One other thing that I love about the envelope system is that it causes me to have to plan out my spending. I find that I spend less when I do this. Planning out our spending also helps cut down on the "oops I forgot our envelope, I guess we'll just use plastic" mindset. 

So, there it is ... our budgeting mindset. If you're having trouble saving or spending too much, then I would suggest that you go to cash. It has truly helped us spend less, and most of all, become better stewards of the money that God has trusted us with.

not good

Three things that are not good for me ...

1. Mondays

2.  Going into JCrew

3. THIS

ocean isle, aspartame, work, and other updates

 {Tree from NC ... I wish I could dig it up and plant it in my backyard}

Hello Bloggers!

Again, I apologize for being so MIA lately.

I don't know what's going on with me. I feel like I've always possessed a gift of being able to juggle a thousand things at once, but lately my juggling act sucks. 

Things are great. I don't want to seem like I am complaining about anything. I'm just in need of the Lord's counsel on balance and how He wants me to prioritize my life. 

So, here are a few things that have been going on ... 

1. E's dad is doing so much better. He is still in the hospital, but his condition has dramatically improved over the past couple of days. His blood count finally started rising on its own! Such a praise. 

2. The new job is going well. It's a huge learning curve, and a lot of times I feel like ... "how in the world can I be some kid's therapist??" But ... the kids are lots of fun. Even the really bad ones have their cute moments. However, I will be honest ... I have met a couple kids where it's been difficult to find anything cute about them. I think that has something to do with being in middle school. The job is emotionally difficult. Each kid that I meet with has a heartbreaking story. So, all that to say, I know that this is exactly where God wants me right now. 

3. The jewelry business is booming. So much so that I don't know what to do with it. E wants me to hire an assistant. I don't even know how to do that. I am in desperate need of business counsel. Anyone have any to offer? Also, Street Scene sales are fantastic. I brought in approx. 50 items on the 15th of Aug, and I went in two days ago and everything but like 10 things were sold! Crazy! 

4. I have been aspartame and caffeine free for almost 2 weeks! It has been crazy hard, but I am trying to prepare myself for the day when God hopefully blesses us with a little baby. Oh ... I hope it's sooner than later. 

5. Last {but not least}, E and I enjoyed a super relaxing trip last week to Ocean Isle, NC. We went down there with 4 other couples & two babies. We loved it. I probably could have stayed for a month. On that note, I will leave you with a couple snap shots from our trip. {Sadly, I don't have a lot of pictures from the trip. Every time I took my outside, it fogged up like crazy}

hello again

Happy Friday Bloggers! 

E and I are back from the beach ... safe and sound.

We had an absolutely fabulous trip. It couldn't have been better. Good food, great friends, and lots of time in the sun.

However, getting back has not been so fabulous. 

I know I've said it before, but adjusting to my new job has been a little bit more difficult than I thought it would be. Maybe it will take a couple more weeks before I feel like I am in the swing of things again. On the other hand, I am learning a ton and meeting lots of fun & crazy kids ... so I can't complain.

One thing that I do want to share with you.

A couple of months ago E's dad was diagnosed with prostate cancer. I never shared about this on here because the doctors assured us that the cancer had not spread and that they could remove all of the cancer by removing his prostate. 

Well, on Monday he went in and had his prostate removed. Thankfully, the initial surgery went well. However, there have been some recent complications. 

While he was sleeping in the hospital after the surgery, his blood pressure began to drop.

Long story short, the doctors believe that he may be suffering from internal bleeding. He may have to undergo another surgery tomorrow to stop the bleeding. They're hoping that the bleeding will stop on it's own, but if it doesn't they will have to do another surgery to correct the problem.

Please be in prayer from E's dad and the rest of the Ridd family. Please pray for peace and comfort for our family, and divine wisdom for the doctors. 

Thanks in advance for all of your prayers! Hope to find time to post again soon.

Until then, take care of yourself and have an amazing weekend out there in the hot July sun.

beachin it

Hello Bloggers! 

Sorry for being MIA lately.

I'm still learning how to balance the new job, jewelry sales, and ministry.

To be honest, I'm completely wiped. 

So ... it's absolutely perfect timing for a little beach vacay! 

E & I ... and a couple friends are heading out bright ( actually I think it will still be dark outside around 4am) and early tomorrow. 

Hopefully around dinner time we will be relaxing on the NC beaches. 

Oh how I love the summer.

Sweet sweet summertime.

I splurged

I usually stick to my budget so well ... but this weekend I splurged. I didn't necessarily go over, but I spoiled myself a little extra and now things will be a little tight for the rest of the month :) 

On Friday I treated myself to a pedicure. It was fabulous. Worth every penny. If you're local, then I suggest you run over to Fantasia off of Southland Drive and get a pedicure. I'm not sure the girls name who did it, but there's only two nail techs and if you say the blonde one, then they'll know who you're talking about. 

Getting the pedicure at the salon got me thinking about my hair. I started thinking about how I wish my hair looked like hers.

I told you all about how my Chi blew while I was in Europe. Well, since then my hair has gone way down hill. I pretty much haven't styled it since then. I love the extra time that I have in the mornings ... and I love the my hair is healthier. However, when my hair air drys it gets this wavy frizz going on. Can anyone relate?

Well, I don't really have the money or motivation to go out, buy another chi, and straighten my hair every morning. So, I went on a search for hair products that would create lovely beach waves without the frizz. 

I ended up splurging and buying this shampoo + conditioner. 

It is the most delicious smelling thing that I have ever put in my head ... and I think I have  less frizz. I've only used it twice so I can't really tell if it's the shampoo or the frizz ease cream that is helping with the frizz ... but I think the waves are a little bit more tamed.

The pedicure and products were totally worth the splurge. Even if they did make the budget a little tighter {I'm not so sure E would agree}.

I am realizing that I've mentioned out budget twice in this post, but I have never really told you about our budget system. E and I operate the spending part of our finances on the cash envelope system. More on that later.

Anyways, I'm off to spend some time watching Band of Brothers with E, but someday some I'll try to write a post about the budget that has given us so much financial freedom ... with a little room for foot rubs and yummy shampoo!

now selling ...

at STREET SCENE!

Today, Stella Bella Boutique took a brave step outside the walls of online.

We've expanded! 

I am now selling my handmade - vintage inspired jewelry line at Street Scene in Lexington, KY. Street Scene is a fabulous vintage consignment store that specializes in clothing and home goods from the 50's, 60's and 70's. If you're local and haven't been there yet, then I would highly suggest that you pay it a visit ... and check out my jewelry there as well! I took about 35 pieces ... several of the designs were made specifically for the store and cannot be found online. If they don't mind, then I'm going to go in tomorrow and take a picture of the precious display to share with you!

I also mailed out a smaller consignment order for a photography studio/store in Shelbyville, KY - Lizzie Loo Photography! You can check the studio/store out here.

I believe that my designs will fit in perfectly with Lizzie's vibe. 

I am trying to get into a few more local stores. If you own a store or have any insider connections then please share!

Also, if you're not local and would like to order via wholesale  ... then I do that too! 

Please email me and I will let you in on the wholesale discounts that I offer. 

Yay for Stella Bella Boutique! Today has been a good day. 

This has been such a fun adventure ... I hope that it continues to grow!